In reply to lm610:
> P.S both me and my belay have discussed where i went wrong and where I should've had my foot.
The first - and far more important place where you went wrong - was not placing more gear. Doesn't matter if things don't feel comfortable.
Change your body position. Do what you have to do - but get that gear in. If you're pumped witless afterwards and end up sitting on it, tough. But better that than trusting your life to one piece.
Personally I never feel remotely safe until I have three bomber pieces (or two bolts) between me and the ground.
> but now when I get that "Need To Commit" feeling I bail.
You're traumatised. Your subconscious is telling you, "No!!!" In effect, it's protecting you (that's what it's set up to do).
Forget VSs for now. Do loads of really, really easy stuff, hopefully cracks, which you fill with bomber gear so there's hardly any commitment. Have days of fun in the sun, loads of 'em, so your trauma over this incident is overlaid with good experiences. Then - and only then - go back to VS and beyond.
Be thankful that you learned this lesson at minimal cost.
Mick