In reply to MG:
Thanks for setting up the thread, took me a little while to find it.
However, in the interim I have had a brief email exchange and as a consequence I will not be posting here. Apologies to MG, I did not intend to waste your time.
If any of you want to know the reason for this decision you will have to contact me directly via email and I will explain. I realise that is a risk to you in that your personal email will be exposed to me. For my part any emails will be dealt with in the strictest confidence and I would trust that you would do the same.
If you don't want to follow up, or feel you want to slag me off in the comments for wasting your time or claim I am "running scared" be my guest, it won't bother me.
Regards,