In reply to Kevin Livingstone:
Wheeee, easy there Kev!
I do think he's got a point. I survived until quite recently on about £14K a year. It certainly sucked, but it was manageable. Blue label Tesco's all the way, but there was food on the table and the bills were paid, rented a dire shared house out in Wembley and there was no shortage of £3-£4.50/hr jobs which helped me tick by. In short there is seldom a reason, with no dependents, to go hungry and claim poverty here.
At the same time, now I earn 8K more a year, I obviously can't claim to be rich on just short of £22K before tax, but despite my bitching, life certainly is comfortable, certainly in comparison to before. I can honestly say I would have characterised myself as scraping by before, now I am comfortable (more or less).
- I spent a grand on a months holiday this year
- I brought a rope, climbing shoes, etc etc
- I own a laptop
- I have gym and climbing wall memberships
- Magazine subscriptions, £3 donation to the Blue Cross
- A contract mobile phone
- I can afford a few beers ever week
- I can go out for dinner/bar every few weeks
- I have just started paying in to a pension
- I can afford part-time study
In short, I am well off. I cannot afford to buy a house and I will not have kids until I earn substantially more OR if I am able to pool finances with a potential partner.
I am also aware I have substantially more spending power than most of the rest of the world. No matter how tough it gets, there's no point in comparing myself to richer friends or celebs.
I view the 8K extra I now earn as somewhat of a luxury - it allows me to buy those things listed above (and more) and none of them is a necessity.
Now, if I was to earn £50K a year, I would be in a position to earn £30K more over 12 months. £30K is more money than I have ever experienced in my life and all I would have to do for a year is live EXACTLY the same way as I am doing now. For just 12 months. And I would have THIRTY THOUSAND POUNDS in my piggie bank. That is rich.
If, after 12 months I no longer had that 30K then it is entirely my own fault. If I wanted to spend it on cars or booze or golf clubs or whatever, then it would be entirely due to my own inability to manage my finances better.
Cut the guy some slack, he has a point.