In reply to Jenny C:
The thing is, no one in the family is worried that we are still contagious from our infections, they were all happy to come at that point. It's just my Brother-in-law who thinks the risk is that we could get reinfected by my mum. And that is what I don't think is even remotely possible this soon after it's cleared.
He is in a weird panic mode and not thinking rationally. He suggested that instead, granny and great aunt could take a train up north somewhere! Well at the moment, a train is far far higher risk than we are!
The plan had been to come out to us for a few days after new year, and I had asked him if he was comfortable with the risk of us all going out for a pub meal when they were with us. He was fine with that too. Also, a much higher risk scenario than our house.
I'm not sure what is going on with his thinking here. It feels very irrational.
Great aunt is now going to come to us alone, as she is over from Australia and doesn't get over often. She wants to travel and see the place and her family. Brother-in-law isn't concerned about the risk of her coming to us and then back to their house 🤷