Hi Frazer,
I met the group that you mentioned; friends of friends. I came earlier that day with a different car and my impression is that the whole situation isn't painted fairly towards us/them. Now, I'm not omnipresent, so this is just a report of my experience:
- the table: I was at the table with my friends and yes, we had lunch on it (we camped on the beach the night before). However, my friends and I do respect other people's properties. Before leaving we cleaned up and made sure that the table area was as clean and tidy as we found it.
- the dog: with the intention of not having her running around the crag, the little one spent the whole day by the table area ( away from climbers, with the person responsible for it ( who wasn't climbing). She only came to the crag for a veeeery short period of time later in the day. She did bark here and there but this seems like a bigger deal than what it is. (I had much worse situations at other crags). I wasn't at the table during the afternoon but knowing the girl that was dog-sitting her I'm sure she was being mindful of other people at all times.
- the crag: it was a very busy day, there were many parties; some quieter than others. I do appreciate some quiet down on the ground when I'm climbing and I also find stressful an overcrowded crag but sometimes that's how it goes ( especially at crags that facilitate both beginner and intermediate climbers; people come with different approaches to the sport). I personally didn't find anyone excessively loud or disrespectful of others. To my eyes, it was just a busy weekend at a crag that it's recently exploding in popularity
In my opinion, parking the car selfishly and inconsiderably was the only real mistake made by the group for which I heard the driver deeply apologised to the farmer (doesn't excuse them, I know). I'm sure that won't happen again. My personal impression is that that was the straw that broke the camel's back.
Lastly, I understand that what happened caused distress to the owner of the land. I can't speak for others but I hope we all be mindful and respectful of everyone, and those in the position of educating new climbers will do it keeping that in mind. I agree with what you say, we all have to be much more considerate of the estate and members of the public who share this great amenity to which we currently enjoy access.
The group of climbers is aware of the situation. However, I'm speaking for myself only, here.
I'm sorry if bolters/climbers had to deal with the owners themselves in regard to this matter.
Thank you.
Peace,
Luca