In reply to ow arm:
In short there isn't any software, you could use photo editing software but the wait wont be lessened much, and some editing software will work quicker but only on soft copies requiring you to export before you access photo's in desired manner.
but how much you can speed up windows file handling process's will depend on how tec savy you are.
the following will depend on what windows your running. there is a lot you can do from disabling Indexing, disabling thumb prints(this will make it harder for seeing what files your changing.) and for the real tec savy there is a lot in windows you can delete or simply disable in registry. then there's forcing your CPU you to work at full always as your CPU is managed and will work as hard as it feels efficient and most software will use only one or two of its cores.
My 8 year old pc takes <10 seconds to flip 100 pictures (500mb)
A better forum to ask on could be
forums.overclockers.co. uk