In reply to lucozade:
Ah, sorry, too quick a read, I hadn’t noted you have tried wash-ins again.
Thinking again, it is possible that the membrane has been damaged permanently so spending money on a professional re-proofing would be a waste of money. I remember one of the large brands years ago used to claim use of perfumes, deodorants, air freshener, etc., including hanging jackets in rooms where sprays were used, could affect the fabric membranes detrimentally over time and lead to premature failure.
Sure you will have eliminated usual possible causes, but just in case not - eg fully cleaned the washing machine of any detergent and conditioner remains before doing a Tech Wash wash (or DP liquid soap, etc) followed immediately by a second plain water with re-proofer only wash? Any detergent left behind could in theory affect the re-proofing.
Also, are you using heat of some sort afterwards to “activate” the DWP? The Gore-tex website still has heat treatment included https://www.gore-tex.com/blog/restore-durable-water-repellency-raingear .
Alternatively, what about another make of re-proofer as a long shot? If you have been using Grangers, say, try Nikwax. The later is my go to personally; been using Nikwax for almost as long as it’s been on the market and never had a problem with it’s wash-in re-proofer.
BTW, I used to re-proof monthly on my heavily used jackets, though I don’t recall having anything with “Active” membrane which I think is a lighter one - maybe more prone to damage/deterioration?