In reply to Marc C:
> (In reply to Mick Ryan) Like I say, I haven't read the book, but if DON was a victim of HIS northern upbringing, why wasn't JOE (brought up in a similar environment)?
That's the most telling point, isn't it? Joe's upbringing, from everything I now gather, was at least as hard as Don's and, economically, more so. Yet it was happy.
Which points to only two main possible explanations for Don's behaviour really:
1. Don's parents, despite Jim P's claims that they were good, warm, loving etc, were in fact lousy parents, giving him neither very much emotional support (despite giving him lots of money) nor any discipline at all. (The latter to me is a really baffling question - just what was Don's father doing in those crucial years when he was back from the war and Don was in his very early teens?)
Or:
2. Don had some genetic and/or deep psychological problem, so that for all his good qualities and wit, he always remained an undeveloped, volatile, fighting 'schoolboy'. So that, all too often, he would treat complete strangers (particularly women) incredibly rudely or even violently.
Or, of course, a mixture of both 1 and 2.