In reply to abr1966:
> Reality check.....more like trying to form.a relationship with a sexually abused child who has been so neglected, traumatised, let down and groomed in to never speaking to social workers that you feel like you are continuing to traumatise them.....then finding out the birth family know what car you drive and being advised to check your mirrors and vary your route home. Then having a caseload of 30 not the recommended 12 - 15.....
> Hardly having a fag with a 'delinquent' kid is it...
I do feel that by missing out, “the harder stuff…well not so much”, when quoting me, you are misrepresenting what I’ve said and the point I was making.
Anyway, I should be kinder and give Sir Wiggins the benefit of the doubt.