In reply to gilly:
Hi There. I have a Rab softshell so imagine the water proofs are good. This one looks like it has all of your requirements (and isn't in a gastlly pink pr purple! yay!)
http://www.gooutdoors.co.uk/rab-womens-cohort-jacket-p289242
My friend has a Mountain Equipment and she loves it, not sure which style. Both brands are very good in terms of being technical and don't seem to have less features than the male version. Montane and Marmot also good.
I have a lightweight Montane waterproof with all the requirements you need but it is more of an over coat and i would need something more substantial for alpine trips etc.
http://www.gooutdoors.co.uk/montane-atomic-jacket-womens-p282947
What are you going to use it for most?